Is it me???

[kila81]

He says that he loves me just the way I am. He doesn't want me to leave, but won't try to stop me if I did. He barely touches me, and his mushy moments have started to feel fake. He'd rather look at ---- than touch me. I'm still fine and beautiful and other men take notice, so why doesn't he? :

~~Kila

[firefighter1111 (deleted)]

He won't take notice of you because he is so wrapped up in his own fantasy world with ----. The problem with ---- is it traps a person into believing what they are seeing can really happen to them, then when they believe that, it sets a higher expecation for people like us, cause in reality, that just doesn't happen. He won't pay you any attention till he is convinced that the ---- is just a fake idea of what is real and then you can show him what is real! You can rock his world! My suggestion is ask him to get rid of the ----. This will help him to begin to focus on you and what is real again. It's not your fault, never believe it is because you are not pretty or beautiful enough, it's his fault and it's because he is just stupid for not realizing he can have reality over fantasy!

[vegasrick007 (deleted)]

.lol

[fitness1077]

.It is good to be in this chatroom.

[exoticcouple21]

`My wife and i recently had a --------- with another male. at first i was down for it but in the middle of it i wasnt feeling it anymore. She says it felt better with him because he made it about her, even though i do the samethings to her. what is the problem? our --- life has not been the same since. what should i do?

[whiteboyinpb]

`I have the same question except roles are reversed. We 've been married for 23 years and she is still attractive to me. But , the mention or suggestion of --- seems almost insulting to her. I'm not the " stallion " I used to be but damn ! I still have needs. I want some wild indian , cave man , hang from the ceiling fan ---...................every once and a while anyway. You know, like it used to be.
She's been icey when it comes to --- for 2 years now , where will we be 2 years from now ?
I've been faithful and I would think that me finding her sexy after all these years would be a compliment but she does't react to it like that. And --- is no fun when only one is there...if you know what I mean.

I dunno !!

[chrissie27]

.maybe she doesnt feel sexy herself. i had put on some weight and even though my husband still found me sexy i didnt think i was and --- was no longer something i wanted to do.

[brandijoshezell]

`Well I'm at a lost. I have only been married for a year and a few months. My husband wants to have --- all the time which I used to love until he started telling me that he thinks about other women to get turned on. He says he is beyond attracted to me that all he has to do is see me and he gets hard but why does he want other women? It really hurts when we are having --- and he starts talking about how he wants a three some. Whats wrong. How do I fix it.

[marriedstud (deleted)]

`Sometimes you need to think about spicing up your --- life. Maybe you should tell hubby you are interested in other guys to see what his reaction is.. Find something that turns him on